Identity. Self-Love. Couples. Breakups. Dating.
Coaching for couples and individuals ready to break old relational patterns & build secure connection.
Individual
Cultivate clarity and inner strength through self-awareness
Transform patterns and create deeper, conscious connection
Couples
The Heartwork Philosophy
Grow through what you’re going through.
Heartwork is a space to slow down, break old relational patterns, and understand what is actually happening beneath emotional reactions. Most of us were never taught how the nervous system shapes connection, how dysregulation, attachment patterns, and unmet needs influence the way we love, relate, and respond under stress.
At Heartwork, we explore the intersection of emotional regulation, attachment, and self trust. When we learn how the nervous system responds to closeness, loss, and uncertainty, we stop blaming ourselves and gain clarity about why certain relationships feel activating, exhausting, or confusing. From that place, change becomes possible.
Heartwork supports individuals and couples navigating transitions such as heartbreak, dating fatigue, identity shifts, and the desire for healthier, more intentional relationships. The work blends emotional awareness, self inquiry, and evidence informed guidance rooted in my graduate training in clinical mental health counseling, offered strictly within a coaching framework.
I created Heartwork from the belief that healing, connection, and love are not things we chase. They are capacities we grow. They emerge through awareness, nervous system safety, and the courage to meet ourselves honestly. Together, we identify patterns, build emotional flexibility, and cultivate relationships with yourself and others that feel grounded, attuned, and alive.
Offerings
Heartwork for One
Guiding individuals through clarity, confidence, & emotional resilience.
What this is:
A supportive space for individuals ready to understand themselves more deeply, break old patterns, and build a stronger, more grounded relationship with their inner world.
What we explore:
your relational patterns and attachment wounds
emotional regulation, boundaries, and self-trust
shadow work, protective parts, and inner child themes
the beliefs and behaviors that keep you looping in the same cycles
What sessions focus on:
Building self-awareness, strengthening emotional resilience, and helping you show up with more clarity, authenticity, and grounded confidence in your relationships and life.
Heartwork for Two
Helping couples deepen connection & grow with intention.
What this is:
A supportive space for couples who want to improve communication, rebuild trust, or shift recurring patterns.
What we explore:
emotional triggers and attachment dynamics
your conflict styles and repair cycles
ways of understanding each other with more empathy and clarity
What sessions focus on:
Building connection, practicing repair, strengthening communication, and creating a more conscious, aligned partnership.
Meet & Align Call
A space to connect and see if it feels right.
This free 15 minute call gives us a chance to talk about your goals, your challenges, and the kind of support you are seeking. There is no pressure, just a simple conversation to see if working together feels like a good fit.
*I'm currently welcoming new clients into Heartwork at limited availability. Pricing is discussed during the Meet & Align call based on your goals and support needs.
Let's Connect
Reach out anytime for support or questions.
contact
paulina@theheartworkcoach.com
*Heartwork provides coaching services for personal growth and relational wellness. It is not a substitute for therapy or mental health treatment and does not work with individuals experiencing active mental health crises.
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Operated by Heartwork Collective LLC
